Every family goes through difficult times. And this is understandable: as we change, so do our relations. Use these tips, and you and your spouse will overcome any crisis with dignity!
What is the most important thing in your union?
Answer this question honestly. Many wives and husbands name children, common goals, acquired property … In fact, the most important thing is you, your relationship. Children will grow up and leave, and next to you will be the man you once married. So take care of each other. And remember: you are not only mom and dad, not only earners, not only owners of the house, but you are also a man and a woman.
Children will grow up and leave, and next to you will be the man you once married. So take care of each other
Who is bigger?
It was on this issue that many families burned! When he and she suddenly begin to present each other with an account: who invested more in children, who brings home more money, etc. Each of you makes his own contribution to the common cause. And if one of the spouses does not like the state of affairs – negotiate, not fight. Review your responsibilities and divide them in a new way.
Joint projects unite
Have you noticed that when you and your husband have a common goal, it brings you closer? What is preventing you from finding such a common cause now? This may be working in the country, repairs in the apartment, etc. But even here it is necessary to agree so that there are no reasons for conflicts. Let the husband communicate with the masters, and you will look for new interiors.
Constructive, not critical!
If you don’t like something, you just need to talk about it! If you endure and then break loose, your husband will quite reasonably ask: “Why were you silent for 10 years?” However, criticize constructively: that is, you do not like some actions – suggest others. But your conversations should not result in a listing of mutual claims. This is no longer constructive, not criticism – this is an occasion to think about divorce.
However, criticize constructively: that is, you do not like some actions – suggest others
Unpopular Decisions
And nowhere to go, without them – nothing! But unpopular decisions do not mean ruined lives. This means that there are difficult times in your union and you and your husband have voluntarily chosen the lesser of the evils. And definitely on time.
These moments need to be well understood and spoken. Otherwise, your life may turn into a continuous unpopular misunderstanding.
your sexual desires
This advice seems too banal to you, nevertheless, some people never learned to talk about sex with their other half. If you have a desire, talk about it. If you don’t want to, say so. Don’t make up a headache. Don’t use sex as a reward, favor, or punishment.
